A lot of people have told me that they “get” hypnosis — they’ve studied for years, practiced the language patterns — but yet they still haven’t achieved the degree of success that they’d like to achieve in life.

Almost anytime this comes up, I always hear about how things like the economy are making it harder to succeed.Naturally, this raises some questions…

• Is success harder in 2010?
• Or do we just make success harder than it really is?

That’s the question I answer in this brand new video I created just for you. Take a few minutes and watch it right now. What you discover today could alter the course of your life…p

When you watch this video, you’ll discover the real reason people struggle to succeed. Plus, you’ll discover a new model for success and a simple mindset shift that will automatically make you more successful.

(Many of my most successful students naturally think this way, even if it’s not something they do consciously.)

So… what do you think?

Please post your questions, suggestions and feedback below and join the conversation.

Best,

Igor

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We all want to be successful in our lives. At least to some degree. What many people don’t  seem to understand is, how easy it is to become successful. In this Article I’ll tell you how you can transform your life when you learn hypnosis online.

I don’t know how familiar you are with hypnosis. But Just to set the record straight. I view hypnosis/trance as a VERY common phenomenon. Both you and I slip in and out of trances dusins of times every day.

Just pretend you are sitting in the car, bus or subway. You comfortably slip in to your own little world. Maybe you have the radio turned on or is sitting with your earplugs playing you favourite track on the Ipod. For a short while you disconnect from the shared reality and enter you own.

In fact you can think of your whole life as an unbroken stream of shifting mini trances. So, why is this important for your success?

Well think of it this way. When life is one big trance, what could be more rewarding than being able to control and shape trances through hypnotic language? I honestly can’t think of anything.

One of the 20th century great philosophers Ludwig Wittgenstein once stated: “The limits of my language means the limits of my world” A soon as you learn hypnosis online, you start to develop your language, which means you start to transform your world.

Just think about it…

You can begin to imagine just how powerful hypnotic language is. You don’t have to become a full time hypnotist or even make money from your knowledge. Sooner or later you hypnotic ideas will start seeping into your everyday life.

Consciously you might not even be aware that you are changing, whilst unconsciously you begin to integrate a whole new way of thinking. Just focus you awareness and learn hypnosis online. You will find yourself becoming more successful every single day.

I know you might be wondering if this isn’t too easy to be true. Well it is… and it is not.

Keeping focused is the hard part. Without focus you learn nothing. So my advice would be to just start doing it and never mind failing. Because you will improve at the rate you are willing to fail.

On the other hand it is so much more satisfying to learn hypnosis online, and actually a lot easier, than sitting on your ass waiting for the lottery to pull your number.

Now if this article sparked a fire in you go here to Learn hypnos online or have a look at this live Demonstration of Conversational hypnosis

Now another advanced strategy for building rapport is what I call ‘creating rapport hooks’. What you want to do is to get people to actually try and build rapport with you. And the harder they have to work to build rapport with you, the more that rapport will be worth to them, and the more they’ll continue to work to maintain it later on.

Now, how do you get people to work for rapport? ‘Rapport hooks’ have been designed to get people to ask more questions, to come back to you over and over again, in order for you to fill in the gaps.
Let’s imagine, for example, I was telling you a story and I say something like,

“So, I arrived at Heathrow airport and as soon as the guy saw my passport he said, ‘Mr. Ledochowski will you please come with me? We’ve been waiting for you. ‘ So they take me off to a room and, to cut a long story short, I managed to get out there in the end, and I’d missed my appointment. So I go straight back to the hotel and think about what I’m going to do next.”

Now if you think about it, I’ve given you pieces of information there that really aren’t complete. There should be questions in your mind right now, like why were they waiting for me? What did they do to me when they took me aside to a special room? What meeting did I miss? And what did I do about it?

Now all of that information was packaged almost casually.
The biggest mistake people do in trying to get people interested is they shove information down people’s throat.

The classic example is the slightly insecure rich person telling everyone how great his Porsche is. A more subtle way of actually getting that information across, and having someone earn the right to ask about it, would be to say:

“Well, so, I was there at a party and I offered to give some people a lift, but sadly I only have one spare seat in my car. It’s only a two-seater. So I really couldn’t give everyone a lift.”

Then, when people ask what car he has, he can actually present the information as though it wasn’t even his idea. It’s a much more elegant way of actually giving information, and more importantly, because people have earned the right to have it, it seems that much more important and that much more real.

Using ‘rapport hooks’ can also help you to fractionate rapport. Remember in fractionation we are adding a little bit of rapport, then taking it away, adding a little bit of rapport, and then taking it away.
So how does that actually translate into actual behaviour?

Well, to a certain extent you can pay attention to someone – be interested, be focused on them – and then maybe get casually distracted, look around the room, maybe see someone else, AND observe whether they try to re-engage you (in other words, trying to strike up the conversation again).

If they do, you have already the foundations of rapport. And more importantly they are working for it. So when you focus on them completely, they will go deeper into that state of comfort and trust than they were before.

‘Rapport hooks’ are wonderful devices for this. Because, rather than sitting there wondering about, “What do I say next? How can I get his interest back?”, all they have to do is ask you a question about something you’ve already mentioned.

So for example, if I say to someone – as an example – you might tell people,

“You know, I’ve just come back from America, and I found that wonderful thing – a little device – that literally allows you to almost read someone else’s thoughts. It’s a crazy idea, but the first time someone used this with me I thought ‘These people have to be kidding. How do they do this?’ But then they showed me the device itself and how it works, and I suddenly went ‘Wow. Think of all of the possibilities that I could use this in.’”

Now, let’s stop there of a moment. If I use this as a rapport hook, the one big theme that’s already open is the fact that I’ve been to America.
Now, someone might ask whereabouts have I been. If I mention something about New York, they might say, “Oh how did you like New York?”

So the point is I’m feeding little bits of information, without completing it, to allow people to then come back to me with questions. And those questions will allow me to develop rapport now that they’ve earned the right to have it.

And because they’ve earned the right, rather than just being given it, it seems much more valuable and they will actually go further with it.

Remember that you want to fractionate this, so that you’re constantly pushing and pulling – putting your attention on them and pulling back a little bit – just to see what happens. The more you do this, the deeper the relationship will develop.

It’s actually a very, very quick way to get to levels of comfort and trust with someone, that in normal circumstances would otherwise be considered far too quick.

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Now, the final mistake is something that very few people actually ever realise. This is the difference between what I call ‘deep rapport’ and ‘wide rapport’. It is essential when you learn hypnosis online.

Deep rapport is what everyone tries to establish. They try and drill down to the depth of a shared experience.

Let’s say that you and the person that you’re talking to both like motorbikes. And you spend hours and hours and hours talking about motorbikes and motorbike conventions. Now you would think that that was a good thing; that that now you would have a good relationship going.

Well actually, believe it or not, you’ve actually just shot yourself in the foot. Let’s take an example.

Let’s imagine that you had a great teacher at school – someone that you really got on well with. And you loved going to this person’s lessons.
Now one day you’re in the supermarket, shopping with your mother, or perhaps you’re out with your friends, when this teacher – let’s call him Mr. Smith – comes along and starts talking to you, but outside of a school environment. Maybe he’s at a party and you’re at the same party.

How do you feel?

Well, if you’re like most people, you’ll feel a little bit awkward talking to this teacher, maybe in the supermarket or at a party.

Why?

Because the rapport you have is contextualised; it only fits in one specific place. So, when you see the out of context, it somehow feels wrong, or unusual.

This is a mistake that people make time and time again: The boss at work, the person working with clients.

The solution to this mistake is to create what I call Wide Rapport. In wide rapport, you actually give them many different experiences of you, in many different environments.

The way to create wide rapport is essentially one of two things.

Either you meet them in lots of different locations, so that every location creates a new set of memories of you two interacting together. And that creates a wider set of contexts in which it’s okay for you guys to interact.

Another way to create wide rapport is through your use of storytelling. The more stories that you tell about different types of topics/themes/ideas, the more they get a sense of your entire personality and actually build rapport with that.

So you don’t get limited to just one track. You have all these different tracks. And after a while, when you’ve opened enough topics, the other person will spontaneously assume that they can talk to you about anything.

When we get to the storytelling, or hypnotic storytelling part of this course, we’ll give you plenty of exercises and loads of ideas of how to actually tell different kinds of stories that will allow people to build rapport in different ways.

Hypnotic storytelling goes much further than just the ability to build rapport, but it’s very, very important within this context as well.

So, now that you’re aware of the most common mistakes, and have some simple solutions, you can actually begin to refine your abilities to start building rapport with more people and more elegantly as well.

The fifth most common mistake is playing the wrong role inside of a relationship.

Now, when two people relate to each other, their relative status will always be fluctuating. To some extent, someone will be a higher status, someone a lower status, and sometimes they’ll be of equal status.

Now, when I talk about status, this is not a value judgement. Someone who’s higher status does not necessarily mean that they are better people. It’s a role that’s being played.

For example, a teacher and a student: the teacher needs to have the higher status in order to be able to teach the student.

The problem is that some people are inflexible, and they can only really relate to someone who is in a particular status.
So some people are maybe so frightened that someone will look down on them that they can only ever be in a high status role. So if you try and take your high status role from them, they’ll start distrusting you or disliking you for it.

So, to be flexible in your communication, sometimes you’ll play the underdog, sometimes you’ll play the equal, and sometimes you’ll play the charismatic or authority figure that leads the way forward. Now, the trick is to help someone create more flexibility by perhaps starting at the level that they require, and then slowly changing it so that they need to adapt to you. But remember, the ‘pacing and leading’ principle means you move only as quickly as the other person can keep track of what you’re doing, and actually follow along.

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As a part of the “new frontier” in the UK police, officers are encouraged to sign up to a hypnosis course.  The course is with no other than Tom Silver, who is better known as the ‘celebrity hypnotherapist’ on American talk shows.

The article, that was brought in the Telegraph thursday, made UK hypnotherapist Adam Eason cringe his feet:

“This should be a massive step forward, a way of showing the true efficacy of hypnosis and hypnotherapy… instead we get soudbites of inaccuracies and petty nuances likely to have people questioning why on earth it is being done.”

Silver once appeared on Ricki Lake, where he gave a woman an “orgasmic handshake”. I have to agree with Adam on this. Why on earth would the police force call in some celebrity hypnotist, when UK is full or REALLY skill hypnotherapists.

What do you think. Cops doing Orgasmic Handshakes, Right or wrong? Please comment

Read the original Article and Adams response right here

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